We live in a world that constantly pushes for more—more productivity, more success, more perfection. But at what cost? The expectation to perform at 99% (or even 100%) in every area of life is exhausting. And let’s be real, is that extra bit always worth it?
The Myth of Perfection
Perfection is often glorified, especially in professional settings, creative industries, and even personal life. We’re told that if we’re not giving our best effort all the time, we’re somehow falling short. But the reality is, striving for perfection in everything isn’t just unrealistic—it’s unsustainable.
I’ve caught myself falling into this mindset too. The idea that if I just pushed a little harder, stayed up a little later, planned a little more meticulously, I could get everything just right. But then I ask myself:
Is this extra effort really worth it?
Sure, there are times when I choose to give something my all—because I want to. Maybe it’s a passion project, a yoga session I’m leading, or a creative endeavor that excites me. In those moments, I’m fully conscious of my choice, and I embrace the effort.
But that’s not the same as believing that everything requires that level of intensity. And yet, so many of us operate as if it does.
Too Few Hours, Too Many Expectations
The reality is, there are only so many hours in a day. And when we try to do everything at 99%, something inevitably suffers—whether it’s our energy, our health, our peace of mind, or our ability to actually enjoy life.
There’s a fine line between pushing yourself for growth and pushing yourself into burnout. Living in reality means recognizing that not everything can (or should) be done to perfection. Some things just need to be done. Some things can be good enough. And some things? They can wait.
Contrary to Popular Belief…
Choosing balance over burnout isn’t laziness. Choosing rest over overwork isn’t failure. Contrary to what we’re often told, doing your best doesn’t mean exhausting yourself trying to meet unrealistic standards.
Some days, your best will be 99%. Other days, it might be 70%. And sometimes, simply showing up is enough.
The challenge isn’t in being perfect—it’s in knowing when to push and when to let go. It’s in making conscious choices about where to focus your energy, instead of letting external expectations dictate your every move.
Giving Yourself Permission
So here’s the reminder we all need: You don’t have to be perfect.
- Some things are worth the extra effort. Others aren’t.
- You get to decide where to put your energy.
- “Good enough” is often more than enough.
Perfection is an illusion, but balance? That’s real. And that’s what makes life sustainable, fulfilling, and, most importantly, enjoyable.
Where in your life can you let go of perfection today?